It’s true. And it has nothing to do with age…unless you count me being 44 as old.
I left Red Wing for Madison, WI, where I’ll be taping 18 more Unexpected Caregiver Radio Minutes. I’ve driven to Madison countless times. With the weather being bad, I decided to take 90/94 and cut off at Hwy 12. Well, I was a little anxious and cut off on another Hwy 12…going West. Wasn’t paying attention, singing to my favorite musicals when I realized that I’m driving towards MN and away from my destination.
Forgetting, getting lost, being confused, is sometimes about focus. Or lack of.
I had a choice: get mad or sing more. I chose to sing (after a little hissy fit.) And I made it to my destination and am ready to record my spots tomorrow.
We all forget. Don’t jump to panic, assuming the worst, especially if it’s your Mom or Dad. Older people can get lost for the same reason 44 year olds do: not paying attention.
This is the first of many a blog entry to talk about reconnecting with our care receivers. My goal is to bring up the real issues–the elephant issues–and face them. I welcome your thoughts.
